More than just friends

Sometimes we hurt people without notice it, sometimes people hurt us without notice either. Sometimes all we want is a friend to be with when the true is that when somebody else needs one we run from that situation. It’s true there are good friends but we choose bad ones too. I guess you need to be in the shoes of someone who has lost his/her faith to understand that actually everyone needs someone to hear them, to spend time with, to give and receive love. I’m going to talk to you about two girls who lost their faith and thought of doing some things just because they where going through a hard time and they didn’t had anyone to share it with.

This story start with one of the girls, we’ll call her Mandy. Mandy was starting a new phase in her life. She didn’t had too much friends and she felt like she wasn’t understood in her house. She thought the only way of leaving the pain she felt was killing her, maybe she wasn’t thinking straight but that were her thoughts. Who would say that that enthusiastic, smiling, happy, smart and pretty girl would feel so alone, sometimes we don’t see the real face of the situation so in this case. She thought of many ways of doing it but she never made them happen because she was afraid of what people would say of her if she survived.

For Mandy this was a hard year because she tried to find herself and make sense of her life. After some time her did she find friends, people to spend time with, give and get love? She felt so comfortable in the group that she is a part of it. While she was still trying to get into the group passed two years and there was a girl in that same girl called Marisa. Marisa had a boyfriend in this time when Mandy was trying to get into the group so they didn’t get along that much as with the other ones in the group and also because all of the girls were in the same class except for Marisa. The group got stronger and bigger they had new friends.

One day Marisa broke up with her boyfriend what she really wanted was being with her friends. I guess I was hard for Mandy knowing she wasn’t really fitting in the group. After some time one of the girls of this group started dating Marisa’s ex boyfriend it was weird for the group being in the situation of what to think. After all Marisa decided to tell her friends that she didn’t wanted to live anymore that she was tired of life that nobody wanted her in their lives. The group was stronger than ever and joiner than ever. When Mandy knew what Marisa was going through she wanted to help but she didn’t know how.

Now a day I can see both of the girls as best friends they spend a lot of time together. Now Mandy is really part of the group. They go out pretty often and nothing can separate them. I don’t know what made their friendship so strong and more between Mandy and Marisa, but I know that this group has something magical because they took out two persons from their hardest moment and I bet that if anyone else is going in that way they will support him/her. This group of friends gives me a lesson of what a friendship is.

By telling this story I just wanted to say that maybe we are going through a hard time but other persons are too and we need to be there for them if we want them to be for you. And don’t wait to the lasts moment to say how valuable they are for you or how much you care for them because we might have some plans for our lives but maybe God has a better plan for us than we do. Don’t risk someone’s life if you can prevent things from happening and try not only to ask for a good friend try to be better than that and be a good friend.